If I may.

Jun. 29th, 2012 09:29 am
[personal profile] stoney321
I find it rather delicious that my ex-husband messaged me today, wanting to know if I sent paperwork in to the Attorney General yet, insuring that he only has to pay a certain amount of child support. He's had to wait one week to hear from me, for the record.

I've waiting since 1997 for any - ANY - child support. So I might not feel like I got a fire lit in my ass, if you're feeling me.

Don't mind me, just sitting over here laughing. *chinfists* What's it like to wait, Bubba? (hahaha)

Happy Friday, guys. <3






WHEEEEEEEEEE!

Date: 2012-06-29 02:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hazyjayne.livejournal.com
:) Is he paying some of the back-dated child support then?

Date: 2012-06-29 02:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoney321.livejournal.com
That's what this is all about. His wages are FINALLY being garnished and he wants to be sure they don't take one penny more.

BALLSY. So, so ballsy.

Date: 2012-06-29 03:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kita0610.livejournal.com
BUT HE'S SORRY, STONEY. HE IS SO SO SORRY.

Asshole.

Date: 2012-06-29 03:26 pm (UTC)
ext_6368: cherry blossoms on a tree -- with my fandom name "EntreNous" on it (Default)
From: [identity profile] entrenous88.livejournal.com
LOLOLOL! Sweet justice! I personally think he should be paying 10000% interest on the support he owes you BUT THAT'S JUST ME!

Hi, Stoney, hi! *shares blondies and iced coffee with you*

Date: 2012-06-29 03:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kuzu-no-ha.livejournal.com
MWAHAHAHAAHA! That's so adorable! And by adorable, I mean incredibly douchey.

A whole week? You are so irresponsible and...
nope sorry, can't stop the whole cackling thing to attempt seriousness.


MWHAHAHAAHAHA

Date: 2012-06-29 03:37 pm (UTC)
zyrya: (Star Trek - fat)
From: [personal profile] zyrya
If we're lighting ass fires, we can pool our lists of candidates.

Why is he suddenly paying child support now? Did it take the state this long to catch him? Or did something trigger the case?

Date: 2012-06-29 05:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ladycyndra.livejournal.com
Make him sweat, Stoney.

Date: 2012-06-29 05:43 pm (UTC)
lynnenne: (Default)
From: [personal profile] lynnenne
HE WILL PAY AND PAY AND PAY.

Date: 2012-06-29 07:19 pm (UTC)
tabaqui: (Default)
From: [personal profile] tabaqui
Ah ha ha. Funny how now, it's suddenly *urgent*.

Wow. 15 years? Is there no time limit? My sis in law is dealing with child support/dead beat ex, and Missouri has a limit of, i think, ten years - if they don't pay up in that time, then basically you can't get any of the 'back support' from them.

Date: 2012-06-29 07:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoney321.livejournal.com
HAHAHAHAHA.

He's still being very polite. And I know him very well.

And he STILL OWES MY KIDS MONEY.

Date: 2012-06-29 07:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoney321.livejournal.com
I think he actually will have to pay interest on the money owed, which is AWESOME.

I want both of those things, yes please!!!

Date: 2012-06-29 07:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoney321.livejournal.com
He was very polite about it, and I was very snarky (and smiley) back.

IT FELT DIVINE.

Date: 2012-06-29 07:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoney321.livejournal.com
That sounds like it's good for the environment; I'm in!

YEP. Took this long for the state to find him. (His family has deeeeeeep pockets and hid him. Isn't that horrible of them?)

Date: 2012-06-29 07:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoney321.livejournal.com
The state is evidently doing a wonderful job with that! :D

Date: 2012-06-29 07:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoney321.livejournal.com
YEP! He sure will! (And let's think about this new person he's marrying that knows that he WALKED AWAY FROM HIS CHILDREN AND NEVER PAID. Would you ever marry someone like that? I mean...damn.)

Date: 2012-06-29 07:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoney321.livejournal.com
Mm hm. That's pretty much what I said back to him, too.

Seeing as his family has been hiding him (and I've continued to remind the state to go get him) I guess we beat any limitations on time? I honestly have no idea.

Date: 2012-06-29 07:37 pm (UTC)
tabaqui: (Default)
From: [personal profile] tabaqui
That's good. Glad something was working in *your* (and your kid's) favor.

My sis-in-law's ex does cash-only work and claims no income and everybody knows and the whole 'nudge nudge, wink wink' atmosphere is revolting.

Date: 2012-06-29 07:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] brunettepet.livejournal.com
Drag them heels, Stoney! What an asshole.

Date: 2012-06-29 07:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoney321.livejournal.com
no matter when I give him the information that the court already has on file (wow) it won't change that his wages are being garnished and the money is going into the kitty for college!

Date: 2012-06-29 07:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] quietlyboloney.livejournal.com
Child support needs to have interest

Date: 2012-06-29 07:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] quietlyboloney.livejournal.com
oh well there you go, awesome

Date: 2012-06-29 07:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] quietlyboloney.livejournal.com
that's the stupidest thing i've ever heard

Date: 2012-06-29 08:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] anelith.livejournal.com
Oh that's just hilarious! Poor guy, waiting a whole week... Must be so tough...

He really has no shame.

Date: 2012-06-29 08:06 pm (UTC)
tabaqui: (Default)
From: [personal profile] tabaqui
It's pretty friggin' infuriating.

Date: 2012-06-29 08:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoney321.livejournal.com
especially when it hasn't been paid for, oh, ever.

Date: 2012-06-29 08:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoney321.livejournal.com
Wasn't that hard for him? The poor dear.

Date: 2012-06-29 08:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hanklerfish.livejournal.com
Well, you can't really blame him. I mean, what is 15 years compared to 7 WHOLE DAYS. I say, do it (that is, if you haven't all ready) but message him back and say that you just haven't gotten around to do it yet but if everything goes according to plan, you will get to it sometime in the near but undefined future.

Date: 2012-06-29 09:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoney321.livejournal.com
You make a compelling argument! And lol to your suggestion.

Date: 2012-06-29 09:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] poshcat.livejournal.com
So is that his underlying motive for the niceness from before, that he wants you to treat him fairly now that he's been caught, so he did some A+ sucking up?

He's a good, kind man who got railroaded by his awful ex-wife and brats. That's what his fiance is telling herself to make it okay to be with him, me thinks.

::tosses naked Channing Tatum in your pool and jumps in with you after him::

Date: 2012-06-29 09:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kuzu-no-ha.livejournal.com
Good for you! I suspect he was one of those fellows who hoped it would go away when the child turned 18. My mister deals with those folks a lot more than anyone wants to admit. He takes great pleasure making them pay. Lawyers raised by single parents have no tolerance for that shit.

Anyhoo. Congrats!

Date: 2012-06-30 12:54 am (UTC)
lynnenne: (mood: not afraid to use it)
From: [personal profile] lynnenne
Yuck. How desperate would you need to be??

Date: 2012-06-30 02:38 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tapati.livejournal.com
I share your glee!

I never got a cent of child support from my ex. He fled to Hawaii when the state of Oregon, acting for CA, took him to court and judged that he could pay 58 bucks a month for our two kids.

\/\/hatever...

Date: 2012-06-30 04:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] evamagick.livejournal.com
His family has deep pockets, deep enough that they could hide him, but he couldn't be bothered to pay child support? Eff him!

Date: 2012-06-30 02:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bitchygrrl.livejournal.com
Oh the sweet joy of justice.

Date: 2012-07-01 05:37 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ladyvyola.livejournal.com
His family, of which his children are apparently not a part? Oh, how I love classy folk like that!
Edited Date: 2012-07-01 05:40 am (UTC)

Date: 2012-07-09 03:06 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] echoing-seas.livejournal.com
I'm sorry to hear that you have to deal with that! And yes, let him understand the meaning of "patience" for once. I'm sending virtual hugs, too.

These gifs are accurate though, and made me smile after the evening I had ;)

Date: 2012-07-09 01:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoney321.livejournal.com
Aww, thank you very much! I find myself looking at those images when I need a good laugh, too.

*hugs* and I hope that tonight ends up far better for you, too. <3

Date: 2012-07-10 12:33 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] echoing-seas.livejournal.com
You're more than welcome!!!

They are. Well, overall. Today is good, now I'm just slightly stressing about tomorrow. But that's life, right?

Date: 2012-07-12 04:58 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dareu2beme.livejournal.com
OH MY FREAKING GOSH.... he's gotta owe you millions.. that's quite the backlog!

Date: 2012-07-12 02:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoney321.livejournal.com
Well, thousands. :D But I'm still not holding my breath.

Date: 2012-07-12 02:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dareu2beme.livejournal.com
fingers crossed and monetary thoughts!

Date: 2012-07-12 03:13 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoney321.livejournal.com
Very sweet of you, thanks! (But this has been going on for almost 15 years. His family is crazy rich and has spent more money than they owe to keep him from paying me. So. *hands* It's just craziness.)

Date: 2012-07-12 03:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dareu2beme.livejournal.com
that is the stupidest thing ever. people suck.

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