Can I ask if this is a pairing-specific problem? I've never noticed a problem with my preferred pairing's comm -- but then I'll freely admit I'm only here for the fic, and that the way I enjoy my fandom pretty much only by reading story communities and by talking to my little circle of friends through chat/chain mails/text messages. I'm a very introverted fangirl and I'm happy with that. :D
Is it possible for you to move more towards something like that -- just hanging out with other fans that have the same views/ideals?
Barring that, I know it sounds bad, but you could look for other shows to get into? Anything whose median age isn't 12? :(
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Date: 2012-08-17 03:54 pm (UTC)Can I ask if this is a pairing-specific problem? I've never noticed a problem with my preferred pairing's comm -- but then I'll freely admit I'm only here for the fic, and that the way I enjoy my fandom pretty much only by reading story communities and by talking to my little circle of friends through chat/chain mails/text messages. I'm a very introverted fangirl and I'm happy with that. :D
Is it possible for you to move more towards something like that -- just hanging out with other fans that have the same views/ideals?
Barring that, I know it sounds bad, but you could look for other shows to get into? Anything whose median age isn't 12? :(