The last on the topic.

[stoney321]

[ETA] I log ALL IPs that hit my journal, be it the user info page, or individual posts. It's for a benign reason (tracking actual hit counts, tracking spam), but let me state clearly: THE PEOPLE WHO ACCUSE ME OF BULLYING (and who constantly wave the flag of "don't like it? Don't read it.") read my journal. I have the IP proof. Let that serve as a "warning" for those who don't want to be associated with me. :)

I am not a bully. [shakes jowls like Nixon] I am getting really sick and tired of whiny people claiming that women with opinions are bullies. IT IS NOT BULLYING TO STATE AN OPINION ON THINGS, and shame on you who would try and get people to think that way.

Shame on you. For being weak enough to cower behind others and go with the flow. Shame on you for turning something horrible (say, oh, let me just pull something out of the air.... RAPE.) into something as casual as a comment about a hobby you enjoy. I think I'll turn the word rape into something meaningless: when I get into my car, I rape it. I'm going to rape the milk into the fridge. I raped my knee when I conked it on the table leg. Or maybe NOT. As a person that was actually raped, FUCK YOU. Oh, but first I was kidnapped, bound, almost taken out of the country, then raped. But because I am a strong woman (or is that a bully? I can't remember which) I beat the ever-loving shit out of my attacker when he was finished. I then took his wallet and got me a ticket home. Then I got to face my female boss who looked disapprovingly at me and said WITH NO IRONY: "You seem to have a lot of drama in your life. This needs to change if you're going to continue working here."

*sucks teeth*

I've been slowly defriended over the past few days by people who obviously feel that I'm a bully. Go right on ahead and get with your getting. Hell, anyone on the fence about me? Move along, you won't hurt my feelings, and maybe we'll both heave a sigh of relief. Jesus fucking Christ, we are talking about stories of Angel being made out of moss and bark and growing a dick for Spike. Because my eyes pop out of my head and I boggle at that being LAUDED, I'm a fucking bully? Ahahahahahaha!

Here's my final thought: you're embarrassed about being caught on the side of the Angel rape Willow with soap/Angel is a bark man and maybe has tentacles/a mildly retarded boxer Angel wants to fuck a crippled Spike/(seahorses? Were there seahorses, or was that a crack!fic I wrote? Huh)/fic and you have to defend it, so you call out the people who don't happen to like something (and again: OPINIONS. Stated in their own journals) as being mean and horrible. <-- actual word used. I could be wrong. Feel free to (continue) to mention in your own world how wrong I am. I really couldn't care less, my life isn't changed by people not liking me on the fucking INTERNET.

But people who continue to demean women for HAVING OPINIONS and the STRENGTH TO STATE THEM are in the wrong. Period. And if you think it's not a big deal to devalue those who have been raped? YOU ARE WRONG. Shame on you. Joss says so. And I love Lynne.

THE END. (from me. Never again will I address this foolishness.)

Comments

[elfgirl.livejournal.com]

::defriends you forever::

(...where 'defriend' means CLINGS TO YOU OMG::

Why do I have the feeling that I should be sorta glad I haven't had much time for LJ lately?

[stoney321.livejournal.com]

YOU ARE A FRIEND OF JOY AND WONDER AND JOYMENT.

Dude, your blood pressure will thank you for having been gone. <3 <3 <3 U.

[soundingsea.livejournal.com]

::clings to you::

People defriend you for being you? Good riddance.

[stoney321.livejournal.com]

Oh, yeah. I'm a bad, bad person, didn't you know? Be careful, as my stink might get on you. *eyeroll*

And I'm ALL about thinning the herd. People don't like me? No worries. I don't like everyone, either.

[ladycat777.livejournal.com]

Oh yes. You're *such* a bully. Because someone who doesn't read your journal (supposedly) and doesn't interact with you (although she seems to have minions who do that for her) thinks you're a bully.

Wah, wah, wah. Welcome to life people, not everybody likes you and sometimes, they say that out loud.

I'm going back to SGA. At least there we wank about thinks that, oh, have at least some significance? With people who are not quite so stupid?

[marenfic.livejournal.com]

You are so mean. When are you going to be here to bully me in person? My toes need to be bullied into having a pedicure, I can promise you.

[stoney321.livejournal.com]

*knocks your block off* Oh, but here's the thing: they DO read my journal. I need to add an ETA... I log EVERY SINGLE IP that hits my journal. Be it an entry, my user info page... They all go into a log file. (I had installed that bug because I was getting spammed by some ad spam and anonymous shit heads.)

So I can see every morning who has hit my journal. And they read. They click. I love the "don't like it, don't read it!" mindset not applying to them. (Unless, as I mentioned to Dovil, I'm to assume they LIKE my journal? They just don't want to admit it?)

I'm sticking with my normal blogging. Jesus we're talking about BLOGGING, you know? Get thicker skin, people. It's freaking BINARY.

[stoney321.livejournal.com]

*bullies some freaking burgundy on those toes and scares the roughness off your heels*

I'm almost positive it's the weekend after this coming one. WHOO and a HOO.

[tabaqui]

HA!
:)

Hi.
I wonder what that 'these people friended you/unfriended you' page will say if i go look. Do i care? I really don't think so.

Wow - *kidnapped*? Jayzus, dude. But yayayay for the beating up and the wallet appropriation. Yay!

It's possible i should friend you. Why haven't i? Hrmmmmmmm...

[janedavitt.livejournal.com]

::hugs you:; I'm here. Going nowhere. :;more hugs::

[leighm.livejournal.com]

Jesus, people.

It's your journal, gives you free rein to whatever you want to express.

I'm sorry about that. I think you have a pretty intelligent journal actually:)

[stoney321.livejournal.com]

Well, it's only a handful so far. But as this STOOPID "WANK" is cyclical, I tend to drop off several everytime it surfaces. Because there are loads of private emails/posts that talk about how horrible I am in person/online.

I say go on and with my blessing. Don't like me? DON'T READ ME. It's simple. (Unless they love to read it, so *shrug*)

Yeah - I was 19, it was a jilted lover, too. I'm small, but wiry. :D

You haven't friended me because I AM EVIL. :D *squish*

[stoney321.livejournal.com]

Right back at you, Jane. *squishes you all up*

[stoney321.livejournal.com]

Apparently you're not allowed to state your own opinion in your journal if it has opinions that go against what someone else thinks. (Someone better tell those critics and humorists to cut it out.)

Well, thank you. I can't say that it's true for every post, but heh. :D

[fireflykiwi.livejournal.com]

FYI, your first link (You're Wrong) and the last link are exactly the same....

Boy does crap happen while I am gone....

[xochitl42.livejournal.com]

[[[hugs.]]]

Wish I could say somethign more useful.

[[[hugs again]]]

[stoney321.livejournal.com]

Yeah, I know. I'm making a point to get people over there. :)

[stoney321.livejournal.com]

Shoot, I'll take some hugs! Awww, your icon of AWESOMENESS.

*hugs you loads, too*

[ann1962]

Not going anywhere either. I am constantly amazed by people. I got defriended the other day because I commented on what I thought should happen to child molesters. I had just found out that a friend's son was approached by a man looking for his puppy. I was furious. But the reality of that fury wasn't enough I guess. The reality of kids getting hurt wasn't enough. Still boggled by that.

[violethamster.livejournal.com]

I still love you. I'd friend you extra times.

You know damn well these same people wouldn't be getting up in arms if anyone offered an opinion that the fic of Fanbrat XYZ on ff.net was out of character. What about if someone voices the opinion that Season 7 of BtVS wasn't their favorite? Are they bullying Joss?

And I'm saying this as someone who wibbles and goes "OMG, did I have any weeping cocks in my fic?" whenever someone says "OMG I hate weeping cocks!" But the last thing I'd ever do would be to demand that no one express opinions on writing because my delicate flowerness might be wilted. (I just, you know, take pills for that. It's my personal problem, not anyone else's.)

[tabaqui]

How odd.
I just looked at that friended/unfriended listing page and only *one* person has unfriended. Which could possibly mean that none of the rest were *friends*, but honestly, i have a hard time keeping track and remembering.

And *HA*.
I did friend you, so there.

Although the bobbing giraffe head is making me slightly twitchy...
:)

[aimeelicious]

Uh, I've kind of missed most of this wank. THANK FUCK!! OMG Stoney, whatthefuckever is what I say to these people. One of my favourite things about you is your willingness to lay it on the line. Good riddance if someone doesn't appreciate that all-too-rare trait.

*makes you a morning mojito*

[stoney321.livejournal.com]

Heh, and I friended you back. Why did it take us so long? :D

Oooh, I'll change giraffes, then. *g*

[stoney321.livejournal.com]

WHAT?!?

Well, I can safely say (without even getting to the bottom of what the other person was thinking) that you're better off without that person on your flist, you know? CHILD MOLESTERS. Oooh, I have NO sympathy for them. NONE.

[stoney321.livejournal.com]

I still love you, too. Dude, you seriously brighten my flist. <3

"Are they bullying Joss?" Ahahahahahahahaha. YOU ARE SO WONDERFUL. And you know, I personally don't mind the "I hate weeping cocks [insert opinion here]" posts because I can go back through my fics and see if it's something bad, etc. I personally keep some of my older fics on my hard drive to remind me that I used to write OOC fics myself. And then I GOT BETTER. (Let's hope.)

(Oooh, and I've been defriended for critiquing my OWN fics! SERIOUSLY.)